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Hi, my name is AJ Junior. Just AJ will do. I am a skinny individual with the heart of a lion and wittines of a mouse. I have THE most loving fiancee EVER! I love making friends, so why not facebook me and be my friend. =)



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Thursday, March 25, 2010 @ 12:57 AM
Not The Way Love Works

I used to think that being in love is all about having control of your other half and having them do the things that makes you feel good. That's now how things goes actually. I was caught wanting during my first relationship. It was kinda like an off thingy which spreads over 4 years. And yeahh, I was that kinda boy to be honest. I thought at certain point I was being simply selfish and I thought by being possesive was THE way to say or even show the girl how much I love her.

And of course you guessed it, the relationship ended. Both of us has went seperate ways, different paths and we are happy with our significant others now. But that's not the main issue of this entry.

My main gripe is this. Why do we tend to feel like as though we must control our other half? When I say control, I mean possessive. Ahuh. For example, boy doesn't allow girl to talk to any other boys, even though they have been friends since forever. Vice versa. The thing is, this issue doesn't arise during the courtship period. Both would like so darn understanding and giving one another space but when the relationship starts, there goes all of it. Outta window. All of a sudden, the rules which somewhat was written using an invisible ink, came into light. Why oh why?

Can't we just stick the way we love someone during the courtship moments thruout a lifetime without any change? Is that ever so difficult? If so, why bother to fall in love, right? Think about it. Seeing an individual being made into a fool by someone, hurts me. I have friends, and these friends of mine (mostly girls), have been dumped by their boyfriend. Some gave the reason, no time (which I believe is crap), loss of feelings (you are still human), no affection (so you need sex to seal the deal now?). Reasons like these really bugs me.

Of course there are a million more reasons but.....I just don't know alright. I just thought everyone should love one another no matter what. I mean, if we have fall deeply in love with someone, make the effort to make it last. Never take the love of a certain someone for granted ok. When it comes to love, being complacent is a very dangerous affair.

With that being said, I just wanna profess how much I am in love with Alyss. She has been the pillar of strength for me ever since she decides to say hi to me. Yeahhhh. I ran out of words to say how amazing this latino princess of mine is. She's just her, honestly her and that is something I appreciate. Her being her and not somebody else.

Well, I got a 12pm shift to worry about tomorrow. And knocking off at 9pm is no fun ok. HATE IT! But I love you all. Very much! Have a good night buddies! Stay safe and classy!

xoxoxo,
AJ


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