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Friday, December 19, 2008 @ 12:20 PM
Exorcism Of The Ex'es


Can I personally ask you all a question? Do an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend have the rights to know what's going on in your life? Do they or can they have a say on how would you live your life after your whole relationship with them is left with nothing but OVER? Do these ex'es have the authority to tell you that you can go out with a boy/girl of your own choosing?

The way I see it, IF there is sucha person, I would bluntly and with great pride, honour them the title of a self-centered, worthless egomaniac. I have had my fair share of run-ins with alot of ex'es. And honestly, there are these kind of human beings roaming around as if the whole world is spinning beneath their feet. They think they are messiahs; sent down from the eternal heaven and supposed to dictate life of others. Yeah right!! Life controller the butt crack of my ass alrite.

It is a very very very annoying fact, that these loose egomaniacs, in the first place...dumbed the boyfriend/girlfriend and then some time later, start calling them asking questions for example like, "Where are you?", "Who are you with?", "What's your status between you and him/her?", "What time you wanna go home?", "You've changed, why?", "Why you do this why you do that?" and seriously, I can go publish a series of book of "QUESTIONS FROM THE EX'ES" and became best writer of the century.

Who does these maniacs think they are? Some Dick Tracy detective or something? Please don't go and digrace yourself. I am begging you. Don't go down that pathetic road of begging and then acting all tough. For all you know, the ones that you dumped, have found someone new, having a blast of a time with that someone who knows how to treat them right and he/she just sees you as a sore loser in the game of love. And have it ever crossed your mind that the reason that they still replied your messages, bother to answer your crying calls is all because they pity you? Like a lonely injured animal crossing the road kinda thing? Someone with empathy would help carry it to one side and then left it there distanced from harms way. It's the same theory actually. Replying to your messages and answering call, just to help you get thru' the day but the end part, the gaps between their fingers are not filled by yours but another someone.

I want to make this whole "argument" a fair trial. Okay, after you broke up, for sure there would be this natural feeling of getting back together. It is not wrong. Serious. Cause if ever there's hope of salvaging something that is lost and the value of it is priceless, why not? By all means, go ahead. No one's stopping. But as you know, the old methods are the ones which caused the downfall of your castle. So don't go trying to layer the bricks again thru the same way. Try a new way, change your style, open up to changes and then you will see how changes opened up to you. As long as you don't try, you won't know. Afterall, you have nothing to lose (cause you have already lost him/her) but everything to gain. Trust me on this one.

By now you might be throwing curses at me but let's face it. Whatever that has been mentioned above, are the facts. I don't and won't make up stories. I'm not that kind of man. And if you are asking, why didn't I get back with my ex if I knew how to do so? Simple. As much as I tried, even the new methods, if there's a man who is much more worthy for her, then it's game over. Cause it also depends on whether the feelings of your other half. If the reason is because the feeling of love isn't there anymore, no matter how much you tried, things won't just work out. So instead of battling a losing war, why not surrender and go out losing BUT knowing that you have tried. There will be a moment where you need to draw the line somewhere. I've been thru this road ONCE and as bumpy and rough as it gets, I am still living life now. I didn't die of traumatised heartbreak disease didn't I? I get to the chance to meet new people, see the world from another perspective. The ex girlfriend is happy in love (I hope I got this right cause I don't really know what has been going on cause I don't keep track, heee) and I am happy with the life I have. She, the boyfriend, the friends, me, my friends. Everyone gains. No sadness.

It's all really easier said than done saying. That's how as cliche as it gets. Breaking up is one of the most dramatic moments of your life. Worst is if you have been with that someone for years, and have given every single ounce of strength, every single drip of blood, tears and sweat...but it all points to one direction. You are meant to be with someone better. And the same goes for that boy/girl that you left.

I'm not expecting anything from this entry. Just thought I could give my two cents worth on these jealousy infested self-centered maniacs. Too harsh? I don't think so. Afterall, if they have feelings, they won't be interrogating their ex'es and be sucha pain in the ass. Change for the better. Bring down the level of that ego and you will see how much difference it will bring to you in terms of life, love or even friends.

I'm gonna head out now. Make love to one another instead of trying to get the better of one another ok. Remember that. Stay classy babies. You know I love you.

xoxo,
AJ


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