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the writer  Hi, my name is AJ Junior. Just AJ will do. I am a skinny individual with the heart of a lion and wittines of a mouse. I have THE most loving fiancee EVER! I love making friends, so why not facebook me and be my friend. =) current play Class 95FM sellout gossips  dearest beloved friends archives September 2007 October 2007 November 2007 December 2007 January 2008 February 2008 March 2008 April 2008 May 2008 June 2008 July 2008 August 2008 September 2008 October 2008 November 2008 December 2008 January 2009 February 2009 March 2009 April 2009 May 2009 June 2009 July 2009 August 2009 September 2009 October 2009 November 2009 December 2009 January 2010 February 2010 March 2010 April 2010 May 2010 June 2010 today's visits |
Wednesday, December 31, 2008 @ 2:22 PM
An Eve's Celebration  Well, look where we are now. 2008 is about to bid farewell to us in under 12 hours time. 2009 is just looming around the corner waiting in the wings to make a big bang. It has been an interesting year I must say. New experience gained, new friendships forged and old friendships rekindled. But in terms of career, well, let's just say I'm still undecided on what to venture into. Ahuh. It's been a good year though. Just that at the year end, it has been rough. But I know I'll survive. It's just a matter of time that things will start to look up again. Positive thinking does wonders you know. Some of you should try it! Hahahaha! Relationships wise, I'm still stuck at the same status since early 2007. Single and still scouring the planet of 6 billion people, looking for ONE person to share a lifetime with. That shouldn't be too hard right? -_-"" '08 is gonna end so I'm gonna stop torturing myself but recalling the stuffs which I didn't manage to accomplish. Resolution for 2009, let's just make it simple. I wanna be a much MUCH better individual. In what aspect? Everything. I'm gonna stick out my neck for this one. I will be someone whom somebody can look up to. For sure! *smiles* I'm running late already. Meeting Nas in an hour time and we're off to set ourself for a party! If you think you saw me? Beep2 can you? That will be 96248006. Wherever you are, whatever you do darlings, be safe stay funky and enjoy you night. If you drink, don't drive. Party smart!! Happy NEW year sweethearts!! You know I love you... xoxo, AJ Thank you so much for reading you all. And since you are already down here, PLEASE VOTE for who do you prefer to listen to for next month. Aite?? Mucho loves! Tuesday, December 30, 2008 @ 4:29 PM
AJ's No Hotline The household is in sucha deafening silence that every single squish sqwash from Sharpy (my arowana) which is inside the 6-feet glass tank located some 20 steps away from where my lappy is, could be heard. That fella likes to coil his body up and smashed up the pebbles inside the tank and messed up all the accessories in there. So, if you are planning to keep an arowana, the least "toys" the better. It is so annoying that everyone decides to have fun in lalaland than waking up and talking to me. Tsk! But then again, mom and brother were doing night shift. That explains the hour of their sleep. Then sis?! She twilight-ed herself to sleep. She was reading the book and fell asleep. Pfffttt!! And then you got me. Very free, alive, alot of errands to run but simply damn bloody lazee to open the gates and step out of the house. Bluergh! Maybe I should pack my bag for tomorrow's 5 4 3 2 1 party. Hmm. More or less it looked to me like a couple of friends along with me, will be doing this year's ushering of 2009 at the beach. Like why not right? Pop the champagne and start the new year with a joyous mood. A clean slate of life a new beginning. Just fresh and leave the scars of 2008 buried in the sands forever. Obviously I am praying that 2009 will bring me more than just a new chapter in life. In fact, I'm awaiting more than one chapter to be written here. Really. A new career perhaps. A love to share with maybe? Hehe! It all sounds so damn good that I can't wait enjoy happiness with someone deserving. Hee. Now lemme get your attention to something else. I got a problem.... A problem with the ex or the other half of a friend. Meaning, my friend's ex-es or their partner. What is it about them that bugged me? The fact that they call me to know the whereabouts or what are they doing and all those what/who/when/with questions about my friend. It is bloody annoying to think that I could be the person with the answer of their questions BUT to have them called me up at 2 3 in the morning, now that has got to fall in desperation retard personality category don't you think so mate? If a certain someone, do not want to be found or disturb, then for sure you would have got the signal by then. You know, like when you call or text, they won't answer. Especially if you're not on good terms hours before. Plus, what makes u think, calling up the friends and the friends will jolly well reveal their hideouts to you. Even if they know, they will just put a masquerade, which is most of the time, a damn good one, to shoo you away. Where do you think this is going? Well I got a call last night, from a girlfriend of my friend whom both names I won't cite here. The time was 2:37am. I am not an owl who wakes up in the wee hours and jumped online okay. No. I don't know if there's any of you with those capability, then kudos! I get sleepy at 12 already. Tsk! Except if I'm outside of course. So I received this dumb call, I answered groggily and this girl was talking to me with fiery hot tempers flaming all over her voice tone. I don't like it one bit. You are calling me in the dark hours and there you are, being a mad cow and you expect me to give you candy when you ask for it? My scat. That's what you get ms frosties. Haaa...when she yakked all of 3 minutes, I just put the phone one side on speaker and when she's done, I hung up and off. Too damn bad honey. Go bug someone else. I'm not saying I will not help or anything. But please, if it's urgent, like life and death, call me. Anytime. But if it's because you fought and she/he is not answering your calls or replying to your text messages, just leave me a text alrite? I'll get back to you when the sun says hello. And when you call me, be nice. I am not a customer service officer. Phew. That sure feels good. Ouh well, just the avenue I need to lay out some couped up emotions in me. At times I just think I am about to implode at any given moment. But it's all in the mind ya know. It's your choice to choose the angle at how you see your problem and the solutions to it. I'm done with this piece. Now I'm gonna go packie bags time. Try to have a rather nonchalant Tuesday evening will ya? Relax. Life is simply just too interesting. You know I love you... xoxo, AJ PS: Pictures taken on one of my November meetups with Andi.              Thank you so much for reading you all. And since you are already down here, PLEASE VOTE for who do you prefer to listen to for next month. Aite?? Mucho loves! Monday, December 29, 2008 @ 3:04 PM
Online Deceptions Good noonies fellow cherry darlings. How has the holiday been doing for you? Certainly, I hope everyone is geared up to usher in the new year aye. I know I know, it sounds cliche but you have got to be a notch happier than usual. Brand new year meaning it's like starting off in a new brand untouched slate of life. Ya know. Something like that. There will be a lot of parties going around, just make sure you choose the right one to go to alright. 2009 will be dawning upon us in under 72 hours. We will leave it as that. Actually, I am typing this particular entry with a purpose. A purpose which may be sensitive to a few; so before I proceed, I would like to apologise and there is absolutely no way I am attacking anyone here. It is simply something which I have observed, analysed and tried my best to put it into the nicest phrases but with the deepest cuts. Here goes... Why do people lie? Not just any people and not your everyday lie. To be specific, why do online people lie about themselves? There ya go. For example would be, a 15 year old female getting to know a 25 year old male. BUT instead of telling him she's 15, she instantly grew 5 more years in a matter of seconds. And to make matters worst, the guy buys it. So here is where I'm coming from. Why would a girl claims to be twenty? Before I go any further and get bombarded with barbaric responses, I would like to mention that this of course, could happen the other way round too. I just need to verify this. Only GOD knows how many narrow-ers are out there getting pissed off at every bloggers' legitimate fictional facts on life. Pffttt. So again, why lie when getting to know someone? Could some of us really be THAT pathetic to stoop to that level just so that we get the attention? Since when did being "honest to yourself is the most important part of self confidence" became extinct? Geez. It is sad really. I have witnessed and experience alot of cases like this happening everywhere. There was once, I got to know a girl whose name I won't mention here, claimed she was 20. And me having this special ability to know things via my gut feelings, didn't believe a word. BUT, to find out more, yours truly decided to play along. The lies were becoming more and more bolder I must say. First was the age, then the school status, then the kind of life she leads. Every little piece of "facts" that she fed me was just NOT falling into places. It all came crashing down when the parents dialled me up and asked about my status between me and her. I told them from everything, every single details on what the girl had mentioned to me bout her background. And then the truth came out. She was just 15 and she was STILL in school. When getting to know her, I asked her whether she was working. She said no but she's gonna start next year (month of January). And then she doesn't own a mobile phone. Which in turn, kinda like verified that she's still a kid. A few more stones were turned and everything just makes sense from there. I actually can't believe that someone would actually lie bout their age, school and all the basic infos bout their life. Curiousity struck, I went up to her and asked. She simply mentioned, she's afraid that she might not be accepted as a friend. Geez. Are we as people really getting picky in choosing friends? Do befriending someone has requirements? Urgh. I urged each and everyone of you, for a start, please be honest to yourself, accept yourself and love yourself. No one in this world can do this for you more than you can do it to your ownself. Trust me on this one. And let's say you're getting to know someone on the internet, especially girls who are getting to know boys, be careful and do not be naive. We have all seen in the papers thru the years, how girls were robbed of their purity in terms of their virginity by these monsters. It's a sickening thought but it happens. Online dating has evolved thru the years. At some stage, it is a fun experience. Some of us, are just so comfortable behind the monitors. So comfy that some even became an internet bully. I guess being in a cyber world, gives us the avenue to be someone who we can't be in real life. Sad world, but that's the reality of it. All of the above happened a year ago to me. And it happened to an online friend of mine too. And she has been whining and asking me for advice on what to do for hours already. Why must this fella lie about the unimportant stuffs. Geez. Can we all just live in a world which doesn't require lies and a straightforward life? Much easier right. Hahaha! Checking out of here right now. I'm done hammering my keyboard. I'll be scared shitless if the buttons can speak. Cause all of them will be screaming their balls off for me to stop typing already!!! Hahahha! See you all lovelies, you know I love you... xoxo, AJ Thank you so much for reading you all. And since you are already down here, PLEASE VOTE for who do you prefer to listen to for next month. Aite?? Mucho loves! Sunday, December 28, 2008 @ 12:16 PM
That Fridee Night With Snappies Good afternoon fellow cherrys darlings. I am so darn heavy handed to type a long post for Sunday. But I bet you guys won't have many complaints if I share pictures, do you? Taken from Fridee night that just passed by 48 hours ago...                                                         That's all from me. Should there any interesting hoohars around, I'll come back in and tackle it alrite. You have a great Sunday now. Enjoy the weekends lazing at home with the loved ones. You know I love you... xoxo, AJ Thank you so much for reading you all. And since you are already down here, PLEASE VOTE for who do you prefer to listen to for next month. Aite?? Mucho loves! |