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Tuesday, September 11, 2007 @ 11:04 PM
EGO Guys Die Can?

Topic today....relationship. Hah. This one word is like....jeez I duno. Ok relationship, there's many to it. The 1 type I'm touching on today is, the love between the male and female species. Yes your typical BGR. Pffftt! If you still have no idea what I am talking about, click x on your right hand corner of the screen.

Where should I start ehh. Oh gosh. Okay here goes. Let's talk about errrm trust? Ermm wait wait, should I say ego? Gahhh whatever la kan.

Having that someone special in your life, is indeed special. It's like this divine light which shows you life's true meaning. THIS is of course if you meet THE ONE. AND it is SELDOM that we meet the one on 1st try. Instead of meeting the one, we met the others.

These others kinda one way or the other teaches you matters of the heart, the hard way. Unfair. Go ponder. It's something valuable which most of us fail to look upon. No matter how sad I am to this date, I am grateful that all that has happened, happen. With this valuable lesson in mind, I'll be better and stronger person in future. Heh.

How much do you trust and control your significant other? Just how much? Do you list down the names of who can he/she meets? Do you list down his/her cans and cannots? Do you? I think the answer is obvious.

YOU DON'T!

You don't become this hell of a moron who comes into a person life, say this cannot and that cannot, and then you want them to do whatever you say ok. This is ego problem at its very finest.

I bump into a friend of mine today on the train on the way to work. And as we talked, I asked about her and her new boyfriend. She said she love him. That's good. But she keeps telling me about the neverending problems that she had with him. Neverending I tell you.

One...the boyfriend doesn't allow her to be in contact with any guy. Two...the guy doesn't allow her to befriend with her ex-boyfriend. And mind you, her ex-boyfriend have been with her for almost 7 years now. So after seven years of relationships, hanky panky, sweat, toil and pain, the boyfriend asked the girl just to forget him like THAT!

How egoistic can he be? There's nothing wrong in being friends. If you don't trust your partner, hell(!) go screw some other girl then. The sad thing is that he goes to the extent of asking the girl to delete the ex number. This is just signs of a guy who have no trust towards the girlfriend.

Nyehh I don't think they will last.

The fact that the girlfriend lied to him and goes on to meet the ex, have fun and all is ammusing. Haha! I don't blame the lady for doin that. The ex shows more trust than her own boyfriend. Women need men who are in control and is secure about himself. Get that in mind.

Ok I am done.

Haaaaa....somehow I feel good ehhh.

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